Are you ready TO LOVE AGAIN?

You CAN have clarity on the kind of relationship you want, and be in love again.
Discover how a personal journey within will reignite your inner fire after years of being alone and lonely.



  • You are ready to love and be loved again.
  • You are now focusing on your future instead of being stuck in the past.
  • Greater clarity on what you want in your next relationship.
  • Self confidence and a knowing of who you are, what you want to experience in life, and that you are ready to share it with someone.
  • Energy, and a healthy respect for your body
  • Peace of mind.
Tanya Unkovich

“Wow I have just turned 64 and I am in love with the most amazing man… I never in my wildest dreams thought this could actually happen.

I reached out to Tanya Unkovich some 10 plus years ago whilst living and working in Auckland, I was stressed with my job, was overweight, miserable, single and felt that I was unable to be myself.

I was looking for a bit of counselling, what I didn’t expect was the journey and the outcome I have now found.

I discovered so many things, I had to dig deep within myself, my journal became my friend, many tears, anger, frustration and hopelessness at times, but Tanya kept me on track, she gave me the skills and confidence to let the hurt, pain and past go… it wasn’t quick or easy but it allowed me to actually be the person I thought I was, but didn’t seem to be able to show.  It was never about the food…. It was never about my job… it was about me.

In other words I found myself, I learned to love and accept me for me.. I opened myself up to seeking love again (after 17 years of being alone), and the most amazing man has sailed (literally) into my life. This man loves me for me… actually who I really am … accepts me and doesn’t want to change a single thing.

The icing on the cake… this is better than any thing I have ever experienced I am not letting it go!”

Lois – New Zealand.






Your current life Doesn’t Have To Define You. It Can change and take You To New Heights Of

Joy & Excitement

Life as you are living right now isn’t what you expected. 

You keep trying new ways, however, you end up back where you started from, and again, defeated.

No matter what ultimatums you are given, how much there is to lose, nothing has worked. 

It can be very easy to remain isolated, alone, to be soothing yourself with overeating, binge drinking or other self destructive behaviours. I know what that feels like, as I have been there too.

That was then, this is now. 

Eventually, the pain becomes too great and you make a decision. From this day forward . . . 

You say no being stuck and alone, and now say YES to you, and your one magnificent life.

You decide to move forward and love again, however, you do not even know where to start!

You are physically and emotionally drained from all of the repeating patterns you are in, however, you know that NOW is your time, in fact, it is a MUST.

I completely understand. I went through the exactly the same turmoil when my husband passed away and I had to learn to date again in my forties.

Now, I assist people like you. Helping them say good-bye to unhealthy relationships, bad dating experiences and and to now find their partner for life. 



To Loving Again.

This personalised program incorporates my proven tools and strategies to help you stop chasing the bad relationships and learn how to fall in love with you, before you fall in love with another!

We work intimately together as I personally guide you through an extraordinary journey of self-discovery, healing, forgiveness and strength, so become Unstuck, to understand your own personal needs when it comes to love, and then move forward to your journey of loving again.

As your trusted Advisor and Transformation Specialist, I’ll be your

mentor, ally and confidante

so you no longer walk this path alone.

Tanya Unkovich Weight loss expert Food Freedom Grief Expert

You’ll have a trained professional with powerful personal experience in learning how to love again by your side, so you’ll:

  • Have personal, compassionate support that helps you overcome your problem step-by-step.
  • Transform loneliness, resentment and anger into acceptance, peace and joy.
  • Experience new meaning in life that fills you with excitement about your next relationship.
  • Now be in optimal physical, emotional and spiritual health and bring your best self forward to your new relationship.
  • Tap into your authentic self, and create a life and relationship you are proud of.
Tanya Unkovich

“When Tanya says, ‘Make the worst day of your life into the best day of your life!’ these aren’t the words of a half-glass full woman; these come from a ‘spilling over the brim, grab life by the throat, I’m going to make the absolute most of everyday’ kind of person.”

Verve Magazine, Editorial Feature

A Customized Program Designed To help you launch into a life of DEEP LOVE

Life is like a fingerprint-- we all handle it, and its pain, in our own way. However, we can easily become stuck in that pain.

Our work together is designed to help you move away from Loneliness and towards a joyful, purposeful life.
we’ll work closely so you:

  • Have an immediate support companion and confidant to navigate and heal intensive life changing events.
  • Finally know who you are, what your needs are when it comes to a relationship.
  • Recover by learning how live fully with mentoring and self-care
  • Trust your intuition, find your authentic self, and develop the confidence to be truly YOU, instead of trying to turn yourself inside out for love.
  • Know exactly what you want for your future, especially when it comes to love, and why you want it, and  to receive the support to work out how to make it happen for you.
  • Achieve life mastery through resilience in every part of life: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, professional, relationships and more
  • Safely learn how to date again, how to follow your instinct, and be open and ready for the love you know is right for you. 
  • Experience new meaning and purpose that brings abundant joy, hope and inner-peace that lasts
Tanya Unkovich
“If Tanya and I had not been working together, I think I would have fallen apart. Instead, I used the tools that I had learned from her and drew strength from our conversations over several weeks and I did not fall apart!”


I’m Tanya Unkovich, a world-leading transformation specialist who works closely with people who have faced major adversity. Having been widowed at 40 and once again thrown in to the dating scene, it certainly wasn’t something I was prepared for.

However, this, plus other past experiences of loving again later in life, I am now able to help my clients escape their prison of loneliness, and develop a truly healthy relationship with themselves, in preparation for their next love. 

With over 30 years of mentoring and coaching experience, I’m honored to have changed countless lives. 

As the published author of the Unplanned Journey: A Triumph In Life And Death + Companion Workbook, the co-host of Hour of Power, a media expert, and the first Tony Robbins Coach in New Zealand, there are ‘trophies’ to show.

However, it’s my personal experience with adversity, loss and grief that have prepared me most for this work.

When I lost my husband, Phil, I thought my life was over. His 5 month journey with cancer was one of the most difficult times of my life.

However, throughout my life, I found powerful tools that healed my grief, faced my other problems head on, strengthened my faith, awakened my resilience, and reignited my joy.

Now, I’ve made it my life’s mission to assist those stuck in life, to help them with the same tools that transformed my pain into a life of fulfilment.

My clients don’t want sadness and loneliness to overshadow their lives. They want to live every moment with radiating joy and excitment for the future.

They want to celebrate life and fully embrace the beauty of what is ahead for them. They want to laugh again, to feel alive again and especially, love again.

And there’s nothing I’d love more than helping you do just that.

The Truest Measures of Success are the Lives We Touch With Our Stories . . .

Tanya Unkovich

I am utterly grateful to Tanya for the journey she led me through. During 12 weeks we worked with her, I transformed as a person in such a wonderful way.

I discovered how it is to live a life of awareness and to be happy here and now, no matter what. This is an amazing way of living!

The tools and tricks I learned from Tanya, will stay with me for life. They have become a part of me through this transformation process, and therefore this knowledge will not easily be forgotten.

Nathalie – Norway

Tanya Unkovich

“Be prepared for lightbulb moments, uncanny coincidences, and challenging questions in a very supportive and non-judgemental environment.


Tanya will take you out of your comfort zone; however, you will love her for it as this is where the real growth happens. Her value-for-money coaching has benefited me in many different areas of my life and will continue to do so as I further implement the strategies I’ve learned.”

David – NZ.

Tanya Unkovich
“I started reading your book at 10 p.m. one night last week and finished it at 2 in the morning. As much as your and Phil’s story moved me, it was learning more about you as a person that has stayed with me. Your journey through your body disorder has left a lasting impression on me and made me look at my own hangs ups. I have always looked at you and seen a beautiful, talented woman with everything. To hear where you have come from makes me believe I can get there too.”

You Can Weather This Storm And Rebuild

A Life You Love

As a personal mentor and transformational specialist, I’ve been a rock-steady anchor for men and women navigating the ocean of loneliness, addiction, grief and adversity. I’ve not only helped them move forward, but also recreate a life that’s exuberantly fulfilling.

I’d be honored to help you experience this same life-changing breakthrough.

Together, we can open the pathway to boundless joy and inner-peace.

We can get through this tempest together, and set your sails on a purpose-driven journey of exhilaration, hope and overflowing self-love.

You don’t have to struggle with a situation this big on your own. Powerful support is here, when you’re ready to receive it.

And when you are, I’ll be here, welcoming you with open arms– prepared to help reignite your heart, move forward gracefully, and live every moment to its absolute fullest. Simply email me at

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